3 Steps for Teaching Independent Play
Independent play is great for both child and caregiver. It gives your child confidence and freedom, while you get a small break.
Choose an open-ended toy that your child loves and play with them.
Choose the right toy! Most of the time, an open-ended toy will lead to longer play, as there is more for your child to explore and manipulate. Play with your child at first and help them discover all the ways they can use the toy(s).
Introduce the toy and remain within eyesight while your child plays.
Once you find a toy that sustains your child's attention, move your body a little further from the play. Stay within eye-sight at first, as that makes some children feel more comfortable. If your child appears nervous that you are further away, try soothing them with your voice, but stay where you are.
Allow your child to play independently in a safe space.
Make sure your child is in a safe area, introduce the toy, and move your body to a distance you feel comfortable with. This might be in the same room or a different room.
Tips and Safety:
Remove any choking hazards from the play area.
Use a pack and play or baby gate to make sure your child cannot move to an unsafe area.
Some children will need much more time than others before you move on to the next step.
Toy suggestions:
blocks
magna-tiles
age appropriate loose-parts
child safe kitchen supplies (cups, bowls, spoons, lids, containers, etc.)
figurines and characters
Published in collaboration with The Bloom and Shine Group.